Monday, March 24, 2008
In the journey of life, each of us comes into constant contact with different kinds of emotions which will either breakdown or build up our character and our very life. These feelings are mainly expressed as joy or sorrow. All of us delight in joy so much so that we often take it for granted but we dread the thought of sorrow which is actually a blessing in disguise.
Setbacks come to us in many various forms, be it in money matters , departure from earth of a much loved one or in failure and disappointment at not obtaining our desires and ambitions. So many of us indulge ourselves in self pity and tears, that our eyes are blind to the many long lasting virtues we would have gained. If we really weigh the pros and cons of experiences undergone during times of grief and pain, we will realize that some misfortune is good for everyone. This period is actually a test of our character, faith and strength as well as our friends. From it we can differentiate who are our sincere and true friends.
"True friends are like diamonds, precious and rare" , this is so real in our lives in this world of insincerity and deceit that we cannot choose to ignore it. When we are in plenty, friends flock to us like ants attracted to sugar but when we are reduced to penniless beggars, they scatter as though we are suffering from leprosy! However, the few friends that remain are worth all the gold and silver in this world. They are the ones who comfort us in time of sadness and the ones to turn to in time of need.
It has been quoted that "from the darkest of rain --- clouds burst the most abundant and joyous of raindrops". So too, after the deepest feeling of unhappiness, we emerge victoriously as an experienced and more understanding person. Our experiences will carry us through successfully in further storms of life. Our understanding will make us "feel" and sympathize for others who are going through a similar ordeal. This makes us calmer and more patient in life.
AISHA : Can I fly Over The Rainbow Like The Bluebirds?
7:45 PM
